Meetings

The only requirement for membership in Sexaholics Anonymous and attending meetings is a desire to stop lusting and become sexually sober.  Sobriety, for us, means no form of sex with oneself or with partners other than one’s heterosexual, marriage spouse.  Newcomers are always welcome.

Our weekly meetings are held in-person, on Zoom, or in a hybrid in-person and Zoom format. Please consult the description for each listed meeting format. For information on how to attend Zoom meetings, please contact us.


Monday – White Rock Hybrid Meeting

7:00 – 8:30 pm
HYBRID in-person and zoom meeting
Sunnyside United Church
15639 24th Ave., Surrey
Downstairs in basement, through white double-doors
Contact us for login information

Tuesday – Zoom
7:00 – 8:00 pm
Contact us for login information

Tuesday – “First Things First”
7:00 – 8:00 pm
Champlain Square Professional Building
Front Entrance of 3150 E 54th Ave, Vancouver (Champlain Heights)
3rd floor
Room: 345 “South Vancouver Adult Day Center”

Wednesday – Abbotsford Men’s Meeting
7:30 – 9:00 pm
Men only meeting
Gladwin Heights United Church
3474 Gladwin Road, Abbotsford
Enter by the turquoise double-doors, at the back of the building

Wednesday – Zoom
7:30 – 9:00 pm
Contact us for login information

Thursday – “Serenity in the City” Hybrid Meeting
7:00 – 8:30pm
Men Only Meeting
HYBRID in-person and zoom meeting
Mole Hill Community Housing Society
The back of 1157 Pendrell Street, Vancouver
Enter from Jepson-Young Lane
Room name: “Community Centre”
Contact us for login information

Friday – “Newton Newcomer Meeting”
7:30 – 8:30pm
Easy Does It Club
7277 King George Blvd, Surrey
Upon entering, turn left into the hallway and enter the first door on the left

Friday – Zoom
7:30 – 8:30 pm
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Saturday – Zoom
8:00 – 9:00 am
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Saturday – New Westminster
10:30 – 11:30 am
The Lookout Housing and Health Society
740 Carnarvon Street, New Westminster
The last side door on the west side of the building
Open until 10:45, afterwards please knock loudly

Sunday – Zoom
7:00 – 8:00 pm
Contact us for login information


In defining sobriety, we do not speak for those outside of Sexaholics Anonymous.   Sexual sobriety for sexaholics of our type means no sex with ourselves and no sex with any partner other than the spouse.  In SA’s sobriety definition, the term “spouse” refers to one’s partner in a marriage between a man and a woman.  Sexual sobriety also means progressive freedom from the many forms of sexual thinking and stimulation and lust that enter our lives.  This freedom is found by remaining sober and by using our Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions in our daily lives (SA To The Newcomer).

We have found that nothing else works. When we have tried to deny what our common experience has taught us, we have found that recovery still eludes us. In spite of the questions, struggles and confusion that we have gone through, we find that sexual sobriety is truly the key to a happy and joyous freedom we could otherwise never know. That’s why we keep coming back to SA (Sexaholics Anonymous, p. 2,4).

Individuals seeking a different definition of sexual sobriety are encouraged to contact the other sex addiction recovery fellowships in greater Vancouver.

Sexaholics Anonymous meetings are for sexaholics only: only those seeking their own personal sexual sobriety are welcome to attend.  Family and friends of the Sexaholic are invited to attend S-Anon meetings.  Helping professionals, clergy and others seeking information about Sexaholics Anonymous are invited to contact the SA Metro Vancouver Area or visit www.sa.org for more information.  Helping professionals are invited refer clients to SA meetings right away!  Please download and distribute our SA Vancouver Meeting List Tri-Fold to those who may benefit from attending SA.  We would be happy to meet with you in person and to provide select SA literature, free of charge, should you wish to refer clients or other contacts who may be suffering from sexaholism to our fellowship.

If you are looking for meetings outside of the Lower Mainland, please refer to the SA International Central Office meeting directory.

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